Urgent: College Student’s Host Demands Immediate Move-Out After Conflict

UPDATE: Tensions escalate as a host in Philadelphia demands a college student move out after months of unresolved conflicts. The situation has reached a boiling point just as the semester wraps up.

The host, who allowed her cousin’s daughter to live with her for what was initially a temporary arrangement, has grown increasingly frustrated. After seven months of living together, the host has reported several incidents, including disrespectful behavior and a lack of cooperation with household chores.

Key issues include the student leaving hair in shared spaces and refusing to relocate her belongings, which have cluttered the living room since her arrival in January 2024. The host expressed her dissatisfaction via text, but the response was a prolonged silence and visible anger from the student. This ongoing tension culminated in a recent confrontation where the student reportedly slammed the door in her host’s face.

“She needs to treat the home and me with respect,” the host stated in a letter to advice columnist R. Eric Thomas. “If she won’t contribute to the order of the home and won’t communicate with me, then it’s not working.”

According to Thomas, the host should establish clear expectations moving forward, including a timeline for the student to vacate the property. “You may need to involve your cousin to ensure she understands the consequences,” he advised.

The host’s frustrations highlight a broader issue of boundaries and respect in shared living situations, especially when it involves family. With just weeks left in the semester, this scenario has become a pressing concern for all involved.

Meanwhile, another letter to Thomas addresses a different but equally urgent issue. A guest who spent the night with an old friend struggled to sleep due to overwhelming scents from fabric softeners used on bed linens. “I cannot sleep in her guest room with those chemicals in play,” the guest expressed, indicating that this could hinder future visits.

Thomas suggested the guest bring her own linens for future stays or politely discuss her sensitivities with her friend. “Good hosting and being a good guest rely on clear communication,” he emphasized, encouraging both parties to address their needs openly.

As these personal conflicts unfold, they serve as reminders of the importance of respect and communication in both friendships and familial relationships. With emotional stakes high, it remains to be seen how the college student will respond to the impending demand to move out.

Stay tuned for more updates on this developing situation as it affects the lives of those involved. Share your thoughts on social media or reach out to Thomas for advice on similar issues.